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A Practical Guide to a Thriving Relationship with Him & Yourself

When he told me “I feel free with you” I knew that he not only really loved me but he was also deeply happy with me.

How many men have you met that feel this way with their woman?

I have been a quiet observer of relationship dynamics for years and I can see so clearly how a woman who controls her man is ruining her own life and her relationship.

It breaks my heart when I witness a relationship where the woman is “the man” in the relationship and vice versa. The natural roles are completely reversed and while some women are indeed more equipped and happier to play the masculine role in their relationship — most women do not actually enjoy being the man in their relationships.


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Anna Rova’s personal archive

Why sex will always be different for men and women and why women and men will never be friends

When you spend a lot of time with a man, naturally a bond develops. You hang out and do different things. You laugh. You watch movies together, you enjoy the same hobbies and activities. You travel together, you visit family and friends. You share meals. You share beds…

Your natural pull towards the same things and values as well as spending a lot of time together is an indication that (surprise!) at least one of you likes the other beyond the pure friendship zone.

That’s how attraction happens.

It’s inevitable.

It’s nature.

We’re programmed and designed to bond over food, discussions and other activities. …


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Anna Rova’s personal archive

Make the biggest change, shift and transform who you are and what kind of men you’re attracting

If I was to describe the work that I do with women in my Claimed program to help them start attracting committed masculine men they would be:

  1. Feminine/Masculine Polarity
  2. Feminine Embodiment

3. Reframing Limiting Beliefs

Everything that I do with women in my work boils down to these 3 concepts.

Today I want to share with you my 4-step process on reframing limiting beliefs about men that my clients use every day to make the biggest change, shift and transform who they are and what kind of men they’re attracting.

Limiting beliefs are basically what’s subconsciously driving your patterns of attracting emotionally unavailable men, men who’re toxic or men who are in their feminine energy. …


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Anna Rova’s personal archive

Where to look and how to find that missing piece

Perhaps you are in transition and are looking for a different way to connect to yourself and your femininity.

Perhaps you have this “perfect” life on the outside and have achieved “success” based on society’s description of it but deep down you know there is something missing.

Perhaps you want to contribute to the world and people around you in a deeper, powerful, feminine way.

Perhaps you want to be more present and authentic in your relationships with men and people around.

Perhaps you are “stuck” in a masculine way of doing everything on your own and being strong and independent all the time. …


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Anna Rova’s personal archive

3 things you can do today to start letting go of the ego and start relying on masculine structures

Being a woman in business is hard.

Being a wife and a mother doing business is even harder.

Achieving success playing by masculine rules quickly leads to burnout unless we know how to preserve and use our energy in the right ways.

Well, I didn’t quite know how to use my energy in the right ways in my work.

For the past 6 months since my business started taking a pretty steep flight upwards I started getting into burnout cycles.

I’ve had my business for three years now but for the first 2 years I was…

Playing around.

And by playing around I mean not having a predictable system and a business model that was scalable and bringing me the cash that I wanted. …


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Anna Rova’s archive

Why taking radical responsibility, getting out of your head and dating multiple men at a time is your path to liberation and breaking through the same patterns with men

Every time a woman shares with me her dating & relationship experience she leads with a story.

A story about how it all started, progressed and ended.

There is a a lot of detail in terms of what he and she said, what she concluded from it, how everyone else acted.

But the fact and the reality is that the story doesn’t actually matter.

We have been conditioned to think that it does (the masculine “I think, therefore, I am) but it doesn’t provide us with any efficient solutions.

Understanding something doesn’t actually provide you with the solution on how to move forward in an effective way. …


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Anna Rova’s personal archive

In the last few weeks I’ve been feeling flat. And feeling flat is a dangerous zone fo me as a creative business owner, content creator and as a woman, wife and mother…

First I followed my own medicine and allowed myself to simply sit with this flatness and welcome it in my body…

Without doing anything about it.

Without having to know the answer.

And without trying to fix it all right now. (Something I was always doing in the past but not anymore.)

It’s quite difficult for someone like me to simply sit in the discomfort but after doing years of feminine embodiment and coaching women through it, I know that this is the only way I can go through this without being miserable and it will actually work faster. …


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Photo by Kat Yukawa on Unsplash

And why your value doesn’t lie in how much money you bring to the table.

“I need to financially contribute to the family and be an equal…”

“I feel guilty having a cleaner because I’m staying at home with the kids and not working so I should be doing all the house work….”

“I want to make $5,000 monthly in my business so I can finally contribute to the family’s budget in an equal manner…”

“I can’t really quit my job and have some time off to figure things out because when I meet a decent man he will think I’m lazy or dependent…”

I hear this from smart, brilliant women all the time.

Women who try to do it all: be the best wives, mothers, businesswomen, career women and all kinds of other women. …


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Lessons learned from becoming a feminine leader, a multiple 6-figure business owner and a visionary who is leading a movement of conscious, successful women who want to embrace their true nature, shed the layers of beliefs and preconceived notions about men, relationships and themselves.

I present to you the new Anna Rova.

The 2020 version of me.

The coach, the leader, the business woman, the visionary, the mother, the wife.

The woman who I always wanted to be.

In the midst of all the world craziness and the shitiest year to date, I have a story to tell about this year that’s a little different.

I have come to full bloom in 2020 🌸.

I can proudly say that this year I fully stepped into the woman I was born to be: a feminine leader, a multiple 6-figure business owner and a visionary who is leading a movement of conscious, successful women who want to embrace their true nature, shed the layers of beliefs and preconceived notions about men, relationships and themselves. …


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It’s time to stop sleeping with Ambition and accept your call to adventure into yourself, your femininity and meeting your committed masculine man

Meet Jacki, a successful woman who works in investment banking.

Jacki has been in a relationship with Ambition for quite some time.

This relationship is not 100% fulfilling but Jacki goes with it because that’s all she knows.

Ambition will never let her down.

Ambition is emotionally available.

Ambition drives her forward through life.

She can trust it.

She can rely on it.

Even if there is no-one else to support her, Ambition’s got her back.

She can stand on her own two feet when Ambition is present…

But, late at night, when her beautiful head hits the pillow and Ambition is right there next to…

About

Anna Rova

Femininity & Relationship Coach| CLAIMED Podcast Founder & Host girlskill.com

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