And why independent women still feel unsafe and empty… — If a saber tooth tiger suddenly jumped out of the shadows… … you’d probably not feel very safe… But if next to you stood a strong, well-muscled man — a Chris Hemsworth look-alike holding a big spear, what would you do then? You’d probably hide behind him, right? That doesn’t…

A story of transformation and reclaiming yourself by Nikki Mantyla — Always, always, always claim yourself first. When in doubt, when confused, when stumbling, when you find yourself wanting a certain outcome or worrying what men think of you etc etc etc, FOCUS ON YOURSELF. Give yourself what you’re needing. Prove to yourself what you’re worth. 2. Let go of the…

How to attract men who elevate and enhance your life — No matter how much this statement triggers you, it is true. A good coach will push your boundaries respectfully and in a gentle way (or a harsh way depending on whether I feel you can take it.) So today I want you to hear this truth: The decision of choosing…

No therapy or coaching can penetrate me deeper than the power of true love and a hard cock. — Cervical orgasm is something that I heard the sexually aware and enlightened women mention at spiritual gatherings and podcast episodes. Those sex goddesses equipped with their tantric knowledge who hold the holy grail of mind-blowing orgasms and pleasure. …

How to stop overworking and burning out and start enjoying success on your own terms — I woke up one day realising that I was not born to be a workhorse. I am not here to constantly prove my worth to parents, boyfriends, bosses, and society. …

My old feminist self had no clue what she was missing — Nikki’s story — This is a share from my private client group from a woman who has shared her “I Got Claimed” story. (Shared with author’s permission.) “Who’s ready for a Nikki novel (aka absurdly looooong post) with a little bit of everything — magnetism, polarity, men as mirrors, limiting beliefs, wins, and…

I’ve come to a profound realization, of sorts. When you lean back, you let the right men come to you. When you lean back, you let the men who are really interested come to you. When you lean back, you start to become curious and observant about the men you’re…

How grieving helps us get closer to who we really are & practical things to do if you’re grieving — The death of our parents. It’s so universal and yet so bloody painful. I push the thoughts away. I don’t have a clue how to deal with the suffocating tightness in my chest that has no exit. I don’t want to move. I freeze. My fists clench, my throat constricts…

If you’ve been given any of this advice before (and followed it), then you’re totally sabotaging yourself in dating. — What’s the worst piece of dating advice you’ve ever received? A couple of months ago, a client of mine asked this question in my private Facebook group (sharing with her permission):